#52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks
Week 2 – Photo
The Photo
This photo, taken about 1910, tells me a lot about my
family. In the back row, with the farmer
overalls is my second great
grandfather Levi Whitman, in front of him is
Hester, his daughter. The man in the black
suit is Monroe David Whitman, Levi’s brother.
The lady behind him is my 2 great grandmother, Fanny Ella Martin
Whitman. The older lady in the end of
that row is Anna Bryant Whitman, Monroe’s wife.
Monroe and his wife Anna lived in Owatonna Steele Minnesota. The little impish girl on the end is Elfreda
Josephine Whitman Ladd. The older girl
with the long braids is my grandmother, Ruth Elizabeth Whitman Emery. The picture was taken at the family farm in
Newbury, Vermont. It appears to me that
a reunion of sorts was coming to an end and this picture was taken for remembrance
of the occasion.
The People
When I first saw this picture I was taken back at the
smiles and the happy nature of the girls.
Hester, Ruth and Josephine were sisters.
I didn’t remember this happiness from them as I was growing up. Those smiles seemed to have faded more and
more as the years took their toll. They and
their brother Horace were the children of Levi and his second wife, Fanny Ella. Levi’s previously wife was Fanny’s sister,
Ann. Ann and Levi had 4 children: Dora,
David, Everett Eugene “Gene” and Fanny Rebecca. When Ann had died of untreated diabetes, Levi
had to have someone to care for his children and free him up to work the farm. Who better to marry then someone he and his
children already knew? Monroe was a
Civil War veteran serving at the Battle of Gettysburg. He and his brother Shepard, who served at
Antietam, moved west into the Minnesota, Nebraska area and raised their
families.
The Farm
For years, the farm was the center of the family’s
gatherings no matter where they were going or coming from, they would stop
at the farm. Many times you could visit
and cousins from ‘away’ would be there, perhaps some you never meet or ever will
again had stopped off to see the grand or great grandparents. After I was born, I was included in the annual
pilgrimages as well. Each generation, it
seemed, had its own little ‘club’. My
grandmother and her brothers and sisters, naturally; my mother and her first
cousins were all the same age. Then there was the children of the first cousins
who were also very close in age as well.
The generational division was obvious as they naturally gravitated together.
Levi’s father David had moved
from Lyme, Grafton, New Hampshire, to approximately 20 miles west on the other
side of the Connecticut River with 7 of his 8 children to Newbury, Orange,
Vermont. The farm was 109 acres more or
less for the total sum of $750.00 with the mortgage signed by David’s X on 13
May 1852. It was a working farm from
the beginning. They raised corn to feed
the cattle as well as the people. Everyone
had chores. In the summer days when we visited, one of the chores I still
remember is gathering the corn for the evening meal. The corn was sweet, fresh off the stalk and
right into the pot! They had chickens,
other small livestock and of course, a barn full of milking cows.
Time Changes Things
Time passed and I started hearing stories about the changes
on the farm. The 4th generation and part of the 3rd
worked outside of the farm to sustain it.
Little by little, the cows were sold.
When aunts and uncles died, land was sold to pay the funeral expenses. The barn, which was built in 1895, was taken
down piece by piece, each piece was numbered to be rebuilt in another location
in the area. Some of the memories I have
of time spent on the farm will live with me forever. Little things like visiting one Easter, going
out to the barn to watch the milking in my finest clothes. The calf I tried to feed decided she liked my
dress better than what I was trying to feed her! I never had a cow munch on my dress before
that! Watching the cows come back to the
barn from the day out in the field, I was amazed at the uniform parade as they
went into their stalls without any problems or effort. How can I forget the early morning run to the
woodshed in the winter to take care of nature!
I wouldn’t have missed this part of my childhood for anything. I know I won’t go back to see it as it is now,
I want to dream and remember it as it was.
For it is my connection to the generations past that I feel fortunate to
be a part of.